Rant straight from my mind to the paper….no rough draft.
“You talk too much.” Three different people I know have told me this over the past week. These were all men of course. This phrase has me so agitated.
What year is it? I thought women were allowed to vote now. Oh, wait I forgot. We are supposed to keep our months shut and walk around barefoot and pregnant. Women are expected to look beautiful but not speak?
Tired of the double standard! Women do not even make the same pay as men in this country. Still? That is crazy.
First of all, why is it wrong for me to talk about sex? I thought this was 2012 and the subject of sex was open for discussion. apparently, I am incorrect. People often look at me in shock. I am who I am. My brain does not have a filter when I speak. If my brain thinks about something that is “X” rated. I say it out-loud.
I thought I was allowed to talk about sex, but I guess I “talk too much.” It is only said I talk too much, when speaking about sex. I have always been comfortable with my own body and can speak on any subject without getting embarrassed. I would not be bothered by being completely naked on a beach, not because I love myself, but because it is freeing to not care what other people think.
Why is it, if a woman enjoys sex, people call her a sl*t? If a man enjoys sex, he is a hero. Sex is a natural part of life. I really cannot believe that at present day, I still have to avoid the topic.
Well, I guess I better go get all prettied-up and put some duck tape over my mouth.
Oh, better take my shoes off and get pregnant too. Barefoot, pregnant, beautiful and quiet. That is what my requirements are?
Like to take off my pants and show every person that said those words to me, my bare bottom. I would love to write “kiss it” on my bottom. 
Just a tad agitated – maybe it was the country music.
Are you sick of the double standard?
…The Ideal Sex Life (Photo credit: mod as hell)
roughseasinthemed
/ August 10, 2012I can manage barefoot. Or bare on the beach (although not done for a while). I think the real issue is choosing who to talk to about the subject. And it needs to be someone who considers you to be an equal and not a sex object.
LizEccentric7
/ August 10, 2012@roughseasinthemed – I like going barefoot too, it feels good to feel the earth.
I need to train my mouth not to speak every thought. Sometimes, I do say explicit things. I often forget that many people are not comfortable with their sexuality or were raised to keep such things quiet. I offend many people, mostly conservatives. It helps me not to be so bored. Let’s see, how many tight asses can Liz offend today? I look at the human body as fine art.
roughseasinthemed
/ August 10, 2012I have a partner who claims to know how to keep his mouth shut. He still hasn’t learned. You are in good company;)
I enjoy looking at people too, of all ages. Young beautiful people. Older ones with the marks and achievements of age. I often think, they are like an oil painting, or a flower, or whatever, to look at and admire.
[The nudist beach story is not for here though in case I offend people too].
LizEccentric7
/ August 10, 2012@roughseasinthemed – public places are like being at an art show to me as you described. I think the only way not to offend some people is for me to say nothing. I was certainly not offended by your comment.
bossymoksie
/ August 11, 2012Men are more comfortable seeing us naked, then us talking about nakedness or sex (or reading about it! I got so much flack from my male friends for reading 50 SHADES OF GREY. It’s just a book! A badly written one!).
LizEccentric7
/ August 11, 2012@bossymoksie – I don’t understand how I am just now learning that men do not like to discuss such things. How did I miss this before? Your observation is correct. I cannot say that for all men though. I do know some who are comfortable with themselves, and do not mind to discuss such things. Men are visible beings. I need to get some books on this subject.
John
/ August 11, 2012well, i’m very conservative in the political sense, and your writing doesn’t offend me in the least. i sincerely appreciate a person who has the guts to say what they truly think about someone or something. also why i come back to your website. keep up the good work!