Diagnosis or Label?

Well Call Me Crazy (on blogroll) just gave me this thought in a comment.

WellCallMeCrazy commented: “Some of my “labels” makes it…”

Does a diagnosis help or hinder a person mentally?

In other words, can a diagnosis or as Well Call Me Crazy referred to diagnosis as “labels” cause the person to feel even worse?

What would the research show about a person’s self-esteem pre and post diagnosis?

Going to have to do some researching on this topic myself.

I have seen family members receive a diagnosis and then change from being positive and having hope to a negative mindset.

Sometimes I wonder if people would feel better without the diagnoses and words next to their name in their healthcare file.

To visit Well Call Me Crazy’s website (she is good people) go to:

http://wellcallmecrazy.wordpress.com/

Informative articles about mental and physical health.

River of Denial

Finally, have come to the conclusion, that there are times in life when we will love someone dearly, but they will not love us back.

The ground feels unstable, hearing and senses are dulled, our mind trying to grasp the reality of the loss of a loved one or traumatic life changing event.

The world feels shaky and uncertain. The night brings dreams of the person and memories that are saddening but yet joyful at the same time.

Love that is not reciprocated is one of the hardest things to deal with in life, floating down the river of denial for much too long.

Honestly, I have been able to deal with losing someone by death better than losing the love of someone I love.

Making the journey to acceptance can seem daunting, but we have no choice but to head down the path to acceptance.

If you have never had to deal with the loss of someone, you will eventually, it is unavoidable.

Roller Coaster of wishing things could be the way they were, but the brain taking in only small pieces at a time of the reality of the traumatic life changing event. Seems the brain knows what we are able to handle.

If only we could turn back time.

Journey to Happiness: Saturday Writing Exercise

 

Ok, just going to start typing away…

I was misdiagnosed beginning at puberty by a family doctor and the misdiagnosis continued until just recently. Recently, was finally diagnosed with the correct diagnosis, (which is private). Don’t get me wrong it took a boatload of insurance money and my own money (which don’t have) to finally get the correct diagnosis. The cost was something like $3,000 per day for the insurance company (which think I have to pay 80%-sucks). Doubt will ever have the money to pay the 20% of the cost to get the correct diagnosis.

After years of suffering and taking the wrong medication, finally just a few weeks ago, was able to see many expert doctors. These doctors (type I shall not name because private) ran a ton of tests. The tests were everything, I don’t think I want to see the bill for the tests.

The tests revealed an accurate diagnosis (finally). So, for 20 years, Liz walked around on the wrong medications. When I say wrong medications, I am talking about the EXACT OPPOSITE of the medication class, that I should have been taking since puberty.

Hard thing is that I HATE to take any type of medications, but this med is only one pill per day, and the side affects are minimal. So, it is the ONLY medication have ever not minded to take in my entire life.

My, I don’t wish to call it an “illness,” not sure exactly what to call it. I was born with this, I will call it “issue.” The issue was not from environmental influences, abuse or the like.

The issue just skewed my perspective of the world around me, hard to write or explain. Prior to the new medication, the “issue” had caused approx. 20 years of stress and much heartache. The family doctor assumed the wrong diagnosis and gave me a medication that made my issue 10x worse (which is what the new family of doctors told me).

Recently, the family of doctors that ran all of the tests, which the cost I estimate to be approx. $20,000/80% paid by insurance, were able to see via the variety of tests what my issue was, and what the cause is, and how to treat it correctly.

The only way to explain my “issue” is this, in short:

Genetics = messed up

Medication = fixed genetic problem

This issue was inherited through a long family tree, the family of doctors told me last week. It could not have been prevented in any way, so my parents need not be worried that they had anything to do with this, and DID NOT bring this medical problem into my life.

My mother is my main support system, and my dog. The dog never tells my secrets, and she stays by my side 24/7.

Some people have “bailed” on me during the process of figuring out what the medical issue was, and so they really are no longer in my life. Seems as though sometimes,

“When the going gets tough, people sometimes run away.”

People “running away” through the long and hard process of figuring out the medical issue, was the hardest part of the entire thing. I mean just pure grief, and heartache, over a medical issue that I was born with, and had no control over, & was on the wrong medication making things 10x worse.

Medication – The medication has made my life normal. I feel wonderful! The only side-affect that I cannot stand, is for some reason it makes my face swell a bit (unsure why). So, I have to watch my diet very careful, and have implemented a very strenuous exercise plan that is the following:

Exercise Regimen (because medication will make me gain weight-have to watch it closely): Started this, just this week.

There is a hill that is very hard to climb and large near my home. I turn on the iPhone with ear plugs, and walk, march and do sprints up and down the hill, also walk backwards up the hill, and back down the hill (this hill the ground is flat). The regimen includes doing squats up and down this hill, and from side to side. The football and soccer teams use this hill for drills (that’s how I learned to do the activities). So, the exercise is approx. an hour or more up and down the hill, my dog loves it too, she runs up and down with me. I also add Zumba moves to the regimen (while going up and down the hill). Zumba is a full body workout and the hill, causes the muscles to really have to work, and relieves every bit of stress in the body. Been doing this daily, will go after this post. There are other people there that exercise on this particular hill (it is located in a huge park).

Natural Remedies – The other remedies I put in place are as follows:

  • Niacin (non-flushing)
  • Salmon Oil
  • Vitamin D3
  • Acidophyllis (probiotic)
  • Super B Complex
  • Vitamin E Oil

The above vitamins (all capsules) soften my skin, hair and nails. They also give me energy and make me feel better. My Aunt’s doctor gave her this list of vitamins, and she gave it to me. I have received many compliments on having no “crow’s-feet” around my eyes, being 34. The other day a man stopped me (I didn’t know) and said, “You do not have any ‘crow’s-feet’.” I said, “thank you.” Never realized before his statement that the vitamins were making my skin so much softer or my hair. My hair stylist said that the Salmon Oil is making a huge difference in my hair and it is soft and grows very fast. Salmon Oil has properties that help with a variety of health issues. Please note, it is Salmon Oil capsules and not fish oil capsules.

Natural Remedies continued – also eat peanut butter and bananas due to having low potassium, and this also helps with cramps from the heavy workout schedule just implemented this week  Been trying to lessen my carb intake, the meds make the body process carbs at a slower rate, and if I eat a ton of carbs, will gain weight quickly. In essence, have to watch my diet, carb and caloric intake very closely due to the medication. The doctors did tell me this, and am thankful for them telling me the truth. Doctor telling the truth? Hmmmm, imagine that.

How is Liz doing now?

Wonderful, happy, feel much better, and I thank all of the wonderful doctors who finally gave me a correct diagnosis for my genetic issue, after 20 years of suffering.

Happy Now!

:)

 

The above post is in response to my own post titled “How Are You Doing?” This post is a Saturday writing exercise. Decided to do the writing exercise myself, because it helps to vent on the blog, well helps me anyway.

http://awomeninherthirties.com/2012/09/15/how-are-you-doing/

I will post a Saturday writing exercise each Saturday, if you wish to join that is wonderful. Doing this to motivate myself to write more and just to practice writing, as think practice of writing is a good thing (for myself).

Happy Saturday Everyone!

 

 

How Are You Doing?

Has anyone bothered to ask you that question lately?

I wrote a personal article in response to this writing exercise (I need the writing practice myself & wanted to vent):

http://awomeninherthirties.com/2012/09/15/journey-to-happiness-saturday-writing-exercise/

Saturday Writing Exercise (in a post – on your blog):

Main idea of the post: Your diagnosis/illness (physical or mental)

Things I would love to know about you in today’s post:

  • Diagnosis (how it came to be)
  • Doctors (who diagnosed you)
  • How do you deal with the diagnosis?
  • What meds were you prescribed (unless too personal for your blog)
  • Do the meds help you?
  • What are the negatives of the meds?
  • What are the positives of the meds?
  • Do you apply any natural remedies along with the medication or only use natural remedies?
  • If you use natural remedies, what are they?
  • How does the diagnosis make you feel on a daily basis?
  • Do you have a support system in place?
  • What have you learned to help you emotionally deal with your illness/recovery process? Example: journaling etc.
  • How are you doing at present?
  • What is the conclusion on your treatment(s)? Are the treatments (meds, therapy, or other working?)
  • How are you doing?

You can place a comment here or back-link to this post if you wish, though not necessary.

If the above questions are too personal for you to write about, I completely understand.

Happy Saturday!

:)

Posted: Saturday, September 15, 2012

Leaders vs. Followers

Question for discussion A: Why are the pharmaceutical companies trying to neutralize the “leaders” or “warriors” of society?

Question for discussion B: Children and teens (naturally aggressive) are being “doped” up in the United States on Ritalin and Adderal. Why?

“The Warrior Gene” determines if a person will be a leader or a follower. The pharmaceutical companies are prescribing anti-aggression drugs to children, teens, and adults in America who carry the warrior gene. You also might want to take a look at the stats and sources at the bottom of this post, the number of children on prescription drugs in America is crazy.

Leadership requires the mastered skills of hard work, aggression, conflict resolution, energy, and common sense. Many people who are born with the “Warrior Gene” are taking antidepressants, Ritalin or Adderal to calm their aggressive personality. The personality they were born with, this aggression is what gives the person the natural abilities of a “warrior” and a great leader. I have never heard of a single historical figure that did not have some type of leadership skills, and aggression needed to be successful.

The “warrior gene” naturally enhances aggressive behavior and decision-making skills. The gene allows a person to make snap decisions, think in stressful situations, and lead others without hesitation. The gene has been the subject of much controversy. People who have this gene have no easy lifestyle it seems, and have a high conflict rate in their life. The “warriors” are more likely to be prescribed drugs in the United States to inhibit their “warrior” nature.

Society needs Warriors. The warrior or the aggressors are an important part of any society. The prescription drugs are impairing the natural-born leadership skills of people who carry the warrior gene, people who would have grown up to be a major asset to society.

For example: person with the “warrior” gene would most likely become the CEO of a large company, as they are born with a natural talent to lead people. These people often have strength, courage, confidence, and natural-born charisma.

Warriors vs. Ritalin and Adderal
English: Taken at the monument dedicated to th...

Hmmm….What are the stats on kids on whose parents have them on crazy a*ss prescription meds in the United States? Click Here to find out:

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/medicating/drugs/stats.html (keep in mind these drugs are HIGHLY ADDICTIVE)

Sources:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monoamine_oxidase_A (Warrior Gene)

http://www.scpr.org/news/2010/12/14/21873/national-geographic-and-henry-rollins-explore-warr/ (National Geographic Explors the Warrior Gene)

http://www.thewarriorgene.com/ (Warrior Gene Test)

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/releases/136267.php (article regarding warrior gene)

http://www.psychiatrist.com/pcc/pccpdf/v05s06/v05s0602.pdf (PDF on treatment of aggression in young people)

http://fda.com/ (Federal Drug Administration Website)

http://www.livestrong.com/article/113358-aggressive-behavior-children/ (Children with Aggressive Behavior)

http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/f6/warrior-gene-39553/ (Kids, ADHD, and the “Warrior Gene” Forum)

“What if?”

English: There is no fear, until we make it up.

English: There is no fear, until we make it up. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

We ask ourselves the questions, “what if ____ happens?” Fear often makes us stop dead in our tracks, and limits our abilities. The question is how do we overcome our fears? I often wonder what the strongest emotion is for us humans. I think it is fear. Well, fear and anger. Fear and anger go hand in hand though right?

Fear seems to hold us back so much in our lives.

Well, I am no scientist or psychologist, but it is my opinion that the only way to overcome fear is to: (more…)

Dare of the Day #3

Step 1: Listen to your favorite music.

Step 2: Close your eyes.

Step 3: Let the music move you, move your body to the music.

Dance, dance, dance….

If you cannot move your legs, move the parts you can to the music.

Feel the music, allow it to flow through you, and make you feel alive!

As I am closing my eyes and dancing around the kitchen listening to 70′s rock.

Dance to where you feel sexy and like a star.

Music can move you.

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